January 26, 2011
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Ask and you shall recieve. =D
Here I am being a copy cat. Here is a list of facts, weird and random things about me. You many know some of it, you may not. Just thought it would be fun, plus I’m such an open book so I will add, everybody can ask me one question after reading this and no matter the question I will answer honestly. =) Promise.
Love me for who I am, or leave me. =D
1. As a blonde, I feel prettier
2. One of my pinky fingers is 1/8 inch shorter than the other due to an accident.
3. I have two brothers, two sisters and a half sister
4. I used to be afraid of making phone calls and leaving voicemails…(other than to my friends that is)
5. Sometimes I still am….
6. I am a great liar but think honesty makes life easier
7. I hate my body
8. My legs grew funny in the womb as a result I am knock-kneed. If I could have it fixed I would pay good money.
9. There are a few plastic surgeries I want. A nose job (i hate my nose). A surgery to fix my stumpy pinky finger.
10. I have only had 2 official relationships, one was 1 month, the other, 5 years 2 months
11. I lost my virginity to a rapist
12. I’ve had glasses since I was 18 months old
13. I am currently having an affair with an engaged man who is 16 years older than me
14. I cheated on my first boyfriend by kissing someone else. I abruptly ended the relationship and vowed to never cheat again.
15. I have a pipe and smoke weed weekly, though I am actively working on not smoking as much
16. I think I am bisexual but have only kissed another girl
17. I was on the edge of alcoholism by 19 so i stopped partying until i learned control
18. I spent 7+ months on a 100 calorie a day diet. Would have been full blown anorexic if my ex would not have caught me and threatened me into eating daily
19. I have a very very, very hard time believing in religion
20. I have fallen in love twice and fallen half in love a few times.
21. I still struggle with loosing weight and actually eating during the weight-loss process
22. I have a half empty bottle of brandy hidden in my nightstand but haven’t touched it in 2 months
23. I co-owned a business by the age of 22
24. My favorite animal is the Killer Whale. Big cats are second
25. I worked in the porn industry
26. I can easily keep sex from becoming emotional, except one circumstance
27. I contemplated selling myself because I was desperate for money. A job offer came before I could officially decide.
28. What I really want to be when I grow up, even though I know it is unrealistic in these times, is a soccer mom
29. I am a shoe-a-holic
30. I hate toothpaste
31. I check xanga obsessively after i post hoping for comments, even though I often write for my own sanity and know comments aren’t gonna come. lol
32. I dont care what people think about me but like to know their opinions
33. LA feels more like a home to me than the town I grew up in.
34. I cannot sleep in a room with still air. I need to have a fan blowing.
35. My favorite color is pink
36. I hate my father and had a bet with my ex as to how long he is going to live
37. I am a hopeless romantic, loving caring person and heartless bitch all in one
38. I do not sit down to put my socks and shoes on, i just stand and balance on one foot lol
39. At least one of the men I was/am half in love with is here on xanga
40. My biggest pet peeve is whistling
Alright, hope you “enjoyed” now, ask away! =D
Comments (26)
That is some list. I’d be hard pressed to come up with that many things about me.
i am sorry, but because of #2, we will never be friends. lol
jk jk jk
great stuff! it is nice to know more about you..
Thank you for sharing.
“34. I cannot sleep in a room with still air. I need to have a fan blowing.”
I cannot sleep in a room with still air either. I need to have a fan blowing too. That is exactly what I always do. I need to have a fan blowing even in winter.
I am gulity of #31, which has caused me to only post privately. I should get over it.
13. I am currently having an affair with an engaged man who is 16 years older than me
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You are very open. I was just looking around for new Xanga posters. I do pretty well for a very old guy here, but people move, quit, get mad and many go to FaceBook. My wife hates the internet with a passion and barely allows me to be on it. I use a Friends lock to be sure no one we know finds me.
You have had many interesting experiences. My life was boring. I moved 20 times in 40 years. #27 reminded me of a couple that I knew in Indiana. I was there for 2 years. They were horribly in debt and found a wealthy acquaintance that consolidated all of their loans and they basically hocked all they had for the loan. It went well for six months then the husband lost his job and could not make the payments. I will skip the details, but it was a very tough time for this couple.
Have a nice week,
frank
2. One of my pinky fingers is 1/8 inch shorter than the other due to an accident.
No way! My left pinky is slightly shorter than my right due to it getting slammed in a door when I was 2. I have a little stump as well. I’ve never met anyone else who is missing a little part of their pinky.
11. I lost my virginity to a rapist
I am sorry.
31. I check xanga obsessively after i post hoping for comments, even
though I often write for my own sanity and know comments aren’t gonna
come. lol
You’ve got comments!
@C_L_O_G - Thanks. You’d be surprised. I bet you could
@buddy71 - Ugh your so rude!!!! Lol!!
Thanks! If u wanna know more just ask
@silenceshape - Thanks, and im working on the the hate my body thing..
@ClimbUpTreesToLookForFish - Lol yes I have to have the fan going, even in the winter
@karila - lol yeah I understand!
@paulinemalpage - yeah, it sounds worse than it is….lol
@ANVRSADDAY - Thanks for stopping by. Yes I am very open. =) You’ve moved a lot, thats hard! You probably got to see a lot, I am a tad bit jealous of that. lol. I hoe everything worked out for that family, times are hard. =(
@Sehsun - Haha i only ran into someone wth the same thing this past year. It is my left hand, the other girl’s was on the left hand too. lol. I had the nail and part of my finger torn off. =( I am stumpy too. lol
Thank You. Me too
Yay Comments! =D
Good list. I too am terrified of making phone calls…not quite sure why, but I sure do hate that about myself!
@walking_a_long_lonely_road - I loved moving–to me it was always a fresh start–a time to re-invent myself. We ended up fairly well off–comfortable at least. The biggest challenge has been taking care of my wife’s 97 and 94 year old mom and aunt. The aunt had to go into an Alzheimer’s home, but mom still lives with us.
I read your profile. I am 77 and just found out about ‘hoodies.’ I love them. It keeps my hear nice and warm. lol I see mostly tten kids wearing them here.
frank
this was a fun read. I hate whistling too!
Hi again, Jen. My single daughter lives in Agoura Hills, but we used to live in Woodland Hills. Long ago we also lived in Long Beach and Belflower.
I love that area–my daughter loves the beach restaurants and some dancing–Thousand Oaks, I think. There are some great malls there.
I was curious what you liked best about L.A.
Hope your day went well,
frank
@ANVRSADDAY - I understand about moving being nice, I liked it too, My 92 year old grandmother with dementia lives with us, so I understand the challenges you speak of.
I think hoodies are good for all ages
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I just love everything, the fast pace, that there is so much to do and you are in close vicinity to lots of things. And yea the malls are great! 
I plan on job searching when I go down this weekend, I miss living there terribly!
@ANVRSADDAY -
I lived in Van Nuys and Studio City so I know exactly where you are taking about
@X_naomi_X - thanks!! It is terrible when my manager whistles and i can’t say omg please stop! Lol
thats a great list. i have a question though. where would you go for a dream vacation?
@okitapieds - Mmmm I’d have to say traveling Europe, seeing all the Renaissance era art and architecture….or Japan. Hard to pick a specific place. Thought if it were a dream vacation I could just travel the world =D
@walking_a_long_lonely_road - My single daughter worked at some insurance agency in Studio City once–very unusual place that she left after one year. My daughter and I once really dressed up and went clubbing.. lol I was shocked that we were waived into a few places over those in line. Wish I could remember the name of the places. That was so much fun. My daughter used to have me go with her when she wanted to dance in case some guy hit on her that she did not like. She would give me a signal and I would walk up and introduce myself to the guy as “Pam’s dad.’ lol That killed all of his hopes.
There is a Starbucks on the corner of Topanga ‘Canyon Rd and I think Van Nuys ave where I got hooked on Starbucks.
Lost of Hollywood people went there for awhile.
I love that area and you are lucky to be moving there. My wife visits her once a month, but I go for a weekend twice a year. She and I are the same. We are not wild at all,. but love watching wild people.
Have a very nice day,
frank
Very interesting entry.
P.S.- My other username is Chosen_Defined